Friday, January 20, 2012

Confidence: The one within

There are times, we ask ourselves:
                    Am I on the right path?
                                 Am I doing the right things?
                                               Am I doing it the right way?
we spent some time thinking about it. Next, we ask our family and friends.

..........and then we hear "Be Confident".

                        BUT
What does it mean to be confident?
                    Where is this confidence?
                                        Where does one get it from?

Well, enough of philosophy !! 
                        Lets get to the answers.
Confidence comes from self-simplicity. Confidence comes from self-discipline. Confidence comes from self-honesty.
Self-Simplicity: Establish simple targets for yourself. Make simple achievable plans, with simple steps to follow. Remember: Simple does not mean trivial, or too easy.
Self-Discipline: Achievements require Dedication-Devotion-Determination. Achievements require sacrifice. That New Year Party or IPL Semi-Final, it will come again next year.
Self-Honesty:  Be honest to yourself. Ask yourself if you are working hard enough. Ask yourself if you are focused enough. If not, make an honest promise to yourself - I will do better.

In summary: Confidence comes from the inner-self.
Help yourself - Believe in yourself - Trust yourself and things will happen. 

2 comments:

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